Same old bullsh*t, different day
I went into work this morning & within the first 5 minutes I was signed on AIM I received an instant message from Tammy (co worker from hell). After an argument (through IMs) we verbally yelled at each other, I met with my manager, than I left. I am now home for the day. This is what transpired (WARNING: EXTREMELY BAD LANGUAGE... please don't think badly of me.. I was SO angry):
THE BITCH (8:51:44 AM): i have done a lot of thinking over the week-end and i am sorry for all the shit you are going through, but if u dont want me to know stuff then please do not come over here and talk to E when i am sitting here, if it has come to this then so be it
ME (8:51:57 AM): fine
so at this point I thought for a few minutes & realized that she made it sound like it was my fault that she said stuff to me that was inappropriate & I did not feel that way. It was wrong for her to comment on things like that so I came back with...
ME (8:58:33 AM): and btw, i couldnt care less if you knew certain things. i dont talk to everyone here about everything in my life- there are things i keep private. & i do not talk to E (a woman at work that I talk to; sits next to tammy) when you are there, if you havent noticed (and i'm sure you listen) we talk about the house or the pregnancy. not kevin. so i think it is RUDE of you to eavesdrop & feel the urge to open your big mouth & make comments to me about things that are of no concern to you. you are the one who ruined this friendship, not me- it is your fault i dont talk to you anymore, not mine.
THE BITCH (8:59:59 AM): get the hell out of here, do you think we all need to listen to your life and kevins dont go there this coming from a woman who bad mouthed her husband to everyone in the office regardless of who they were & now is back with him & bought a new house that ridiculously over priced at $377,000 & has no heat in the upstairs & floods in the basement.
ME (9:00:21 AM): and right tammy- we all wanna hear about your fucked up marriage or curtains & house all the fucking time? ok, low blow but she never shuts up about her personal garbage
ME (9:00:37 AM): i fucking dropped it when i wrote you last week. drop it
ME (9:00:57 AM): who the fuck are you to tell me to not go there?
THE BITCH (9:01:09 AM): no we dont and u drop it who the fuck are u ok, repeating what I said
ME (9:02:05 AM): fuck u tammy. get over yourself. you make yourself the joke. you are the one who acts stupid. you are ridiculous. get over yourself.
THE BITCH (9:02:37 AM): you are the child not me get over yourself sounds a lot like, "i know you are but what am i?"
The comment calling me a child was the last straw. I've really had it. I don't know what to do. This is a 42 year old woman who acts like a 10 year old child. She airs her dirty laundry to ever person in our office~ regardless of who they are. I actually helped get her a job at this company about 2 years ago & this is how I get repaid. I really feel like I can't handle it anymore. I was so upset with the way she sent this stuff to me that I just kind of went off. So I am home & just IM my boss at work (btw she is only 28) & she said she talked to her boss & he is coming in tomorrow (he's an accountant so we rarely see him during tax time) & he will be calling us in to talk to him. I know that she won't be fired~ even though I really have to admit that I wish she would be. I know in the end I look bad too which makes me feel worse. I didn't do anything to deserve this. I'm just trying to get by. It isn't fair. I don't know how I am going to go into work tomorrow & do my job knowing that everyone in my office knows what happened today (I'm sure Tammy will tell everyone if they don't already know). I've been at my job for 3 years this August & I feel like I'm being pushed out. I wish I could just call up & quit & go pick up my pictures & stuff & leave.. forever.. because I don't want to do this anymore!
Alright, I'm sorry this was such a vent. It's 11:45 in the morning & I want my day to be over with already. Maybe later I'll post about my weekend which actually was good!
~Kristina
3 Comments:
I am SO sorry that you've had to deal with that. People like that are SO frustrating, I know how it can be, and they always bring out the worst in us! I hope you were able to relax today. I'm thinking of you!
Ugh, Kristina, I'm sorry to hear about what this Tammy character is putting you through. I felt stressed just reading your post, and I feel bad that you have to deal with her garbage every day...in any case, I hope once you got done with your workday that things got better for you!
Christina
On a brighter note I LOVE your new template!! Did you make it yourself!!!!? That is so awesome. You'll have to let me know. See- I'm trying to look on the brightside for you! ha ha. :) Hope today goes better.
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